Setting Intentions for the New Year
Setting Intentions for the New Year In 2011, I was introduced to a new way to start the year off right—using intentions instead of resolutions. By using New…
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Showgirl is Divine Feminine Embodied
What if the Showgirl isn’t really dying? What if her true self, the Divine Feminine, is finally being revealed? I thought the Showgirl was dying I have written…
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What does it feel like to chase your dreams?
What does it feel like to chase your dreams? In the beginning, it feels like adventure, excitement, expansive. Like being on a path to discover a new world…
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Gifts for the glamour girl
Not sure what to gift your glamour girl? Try on these options to make her feel extra, fancy or maybe just a bit more luxurious in her day…
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The power of Trust
How do you use trust in your life? A recent conversation with my friend Christopher Childers from episode 013, revealed an element of being a performer that I…
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The Truth About Permission
Permission doesn’t always come from outside of us A recent online training I took revealed to me just how much I have been holding myself back from experiencing…
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One heartbreaking truth: the Showgirl is missing from the city that made her famous
The first time I noticed the Showgirl is missing from Las Vegas In 2018, I took a road trip with my family to LA to visit Disneyland for…
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7 proven ways to use your alter ego to get what you want
7 Ways to Use Your Alter Ego to Get What You Want Think that an alter ego is just for the stage? Think again. I have successfully used…
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How to turn up your sexy and embody confidence
Embodying an alter ego There I was, sitting in my group coaching call on zoom, feeling insecure, unsure of how to move forward in my business and fed…
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The One thing I needed to know to BE fun
Turning up the dial on fun Last week, I shared all about that moment and how it impacted my mindset and my confidence. The moment that I realized…
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One simple question I couldn’t answer to propel myself forward
“What do you want?” It seems like a simple question that a woman who thinks she knows who she is and what she wants would be able to…
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What’s Your Brand of Sexy?
What is a Brand of Sexy? Recently, I released a quiz to determine your Brand of Sexy. Take the quiz below to find out what your Brand of…
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Dating Sucks (Or How I Found My True Love)
Finding True Love I had no idea how our parent’s relationship affects our own relationships in life. I thought that I was supposed to find the same relationship…
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The secret role “dressing up” plays on your confidence
Why Dress up? As a #showgirlforlife, I sometimes forget that dressing up is a mystery to some people. (I live in Colorado, our “formal” is usually jeans and…
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How the mom became the showgirl
Finding the way back to me Going from Showgirl to Mother was a breeze for me. I have always had a strong connection to my inner Mother as…
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How important is a proper bow?
Take a Proper Bow During a curtain call recently, I witnessed another performer fail to fully take their bow when their name was called. They just sort of…
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Being authentic: How Often Do You Wear a Mask?
What does it mean to be authentic? Have you ever caught the eyes of a small child sitting in the seat of a grocery cart or as they…
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Choreography, the Quick and Dirty Way
Choreography tips for those who hate choreographing Choreography. It’s my arch nemesis when it comes to creating a new act. I have never been good at it, nor…
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How Laughing Leads to a Confident and Sexy You
Laughing leads to confidence I have figured out how I continue to look younger than other women my age, and in turn feel more confident. Laughing leads to…
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Are you a Victim of Fake Confidence?
What is Fake Confidence? Fake it ’til you make it, is another way to describe fake confidence. Read more to learn my experience with this confidence-building tactic that…
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Defining Success: It’s Not About the Numbers
How do you define success? Growing up, I was taught that success is how much money you have in the bank (or how big your house is and…
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The Hidden Power of Ritual
The hidden power of ritual Recently, I have been assessing all the abundance and love in my life and realizing that I have so much abundance and love,…
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Are you undervaluing yourself as a performer?
The hard truth about burlesque performer pay It is infuriating to learn that burlesque performers are stripping for free. The truth about burlesque performer pay is that someone…
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Adding Value: How to get more bookings
How to add value to get paid more There has been a little bit of an uproar in the burlesque community due to a show pay poll and…
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What is the X Factor?
Connect with the Audience As a performer, you’ve probably heard of the “X Factor.” No, I’m not talking about the TV show. I’m talking about the essence of…